Getting Yourself NoticedMay 05, 2023
Do you ever feel stuck in the same place, unable to make any headway with your dreams and goals? It could be because you've been doing everything right but haven't been getting yourself noticed, a key ingredient for success. Getting seen is essential for achieving more in life; it can also give you the confidence to take on more significant challenges and enter new opportunities.
Leaving a good impression on others
Attention and appreciation are things that many of us want, and they can be good things if we want to achieve something and unlock more opportunities. However, there are so many people out there, and a significant number of people can also do the same things as you do, if not better. This is where getting the attention of others, especially those that can provide opportunities, play an essential role. Sometimes, hard work is not enough to get yourself noticed, and you may need to go the extra mile to be seen. For example, if you want to get promoted at work or seize an opportunity, it will do you good to do some things to help you get noticed.
1. Put yourself out there
If you spend more of your time indoors and don't participate much in events where there are people, chances are you will hardly get noticed by others if they don't even see or know you. This activity can be challenging for introverts or shy people, but you must show yourself to people if you are trying to get somewhere or achieve something. It can even extend to the online world by talking, commenting, or doing things that make people notice you. If you want to increase the chances of getting noticed, the first move has to come from you.
2. Do more than what is expected from you
Our jobs usually have a defined set of responsibilities describing what we should do. People can also have expectations of what we can do to them depending on our relationships with others. It is okay to accomplish these expectations diligently and do what others want. However, you may feel like you are not doing enough if people are hardly reacting or praising what you do, perhaps because it is already expected from you, and nothing unique or outstanding happens. One way for people to notice you are by going beyond or doing something extra, aside from what is expected. For example, to get noticed at work, you may do more workload than average or render extra hours sometimes to make an impression on your boss. For people, you may do something that benefits them, even if they didn't ask you to do it for them. People will pay attention to you if you do more than what is asked or do something unique aside from the normal.
3. Work on something you excel at and keep improving on it
People can be pretty picky when it comes to giving attention to something. If something is so familiar, people may not even bat an eye because they have already seen it. Look at talent shows where judges choose who gets in and who goes out. For example, if it is a singing competition, pretty much everyone, or most of them, who auditions will know how to sing, but who gets chosen? Those who have something unique or outstanding singing ability will most likely be the ones that get picked. The same goes for other fields where we try to get in at something or move up. If we perform like everybody else, it can be harder to get what we want. So to counter this, it will be better if we focus on our strengths and become experts at something we excel at. Chances are we can be better than others or provide something unique to others if we take advantage of our strengths and talents and make good use of them. People can notice us for this, and they may provide something nice, such as an opportunity, to help us become better and more successful.
4. Maintain good relationships with people
People are more likely to talk about or notice you if you are on good terms with them. Being a kind and good person to others and trying to help when you can leave a positive impression on them. You may not be the best at something, but if you didn't do anything that offended people or put them in a bad spot, chances are people can pay attention and remember you if you are a good person to them, especially if you helped them once before. It also helps if people get to know you more, so talking about yourself during conversations can put you under people's radar, and they can perhaps remember you when something comes up.
5. Do something that caters to what people like to see or notice
Another way to get people interested in you is to do something that catches their interest. People like various things, and if you do something along those lines, they are more likely to pay attention to you because they may like to see what value you can give them by doing what they want. An excellent example of this is in the realm of content creators, where people nowadays post different kinds of content online using various media like images and videos showcasing them doing multiple things. Content that shows activities that tickle what people fancy will get the most views and attention, giving the content creator more monetization of their content for profit. Similarly, people will notice us more if we do something that aligns with what's trendy or in demand. Also, remember not to look trying so hard only to catch people's attention, as you must be genuinely interested and capable in what you do to impress others truly.
6. Be consistent
Getting noticed by others can take time and effort. For example, if one of your career goals is to get promoted and land a higher-paying position, it may take years before you get it. At least, as a good starting point, being consistent in what you do and performing well always will help you become more adept at what you do. If your boss notices that you are consistently good in your work performance, you can be one of the candidates for promotion. Doing something extra will only increase the chances of you achieving your goal. Consistency helps build your reputation and can be the road toward recognition.
It takes effort to get noticed.
Being noticed is not required to live a decent life. Still, it is something we need to take advantage of at certain times, especially when we need to attain something by getting people's attention, such as landing a job or working on something that requires fame to succeed. Like other things, balance is essential when getting people's attention because we may not look sincere in our efforts if we try too hard to show off. Sometimes, it's better to act natural and let our innate strengths and uniqueness work their magic in helping us get noticed, although extra efforts like the ones we listed above can also do us wonders. And once we do get noticed, don't let things get too much in your head, and be thankful for the people that appreciated you and continue to work hard and be humble for your success.